One thing that really irates me

topic posted Fri, April 11, 2008 - 7:26 PM by  curmudgeon
When I sit down in the evening to watch a movie and the family member I'm with brings something to keep their hand busy. Unfolded laundry, knitting, sketch pad, bills. I aware their not watching the screen and missing out on half the film - Completely annoys me. To me sharing a film is both paying attention to it and giving the people who created it your respect and undivided attention. I want to get lost in the film. Is it just me?
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curmudgeon
SF Bay Area
  • Re: One thing that really irates me

    Fri, April 11, 2008 - 8:07 PM
    Don't go hatin' on us knitters!

    Most knitters who are at least in the intermediate stage (more than just the two basic stitches) can knit simple patterns without looking at the screen. Or they figure that a movie that's mostly talk and little on-screen action isn't something they have to look at all the time. And it isn't a huge motion (like laundry folding) or thought-consuming (like paying the bills) process. It's just hand movement.

    Besides, if you've ever worn a pair of hand-knit socks, you wouldn't complain ever again :)
    • Re: One thing that really irates me

      Sat, April 12, 2008 - 2:47 PM
      >Most knitters who are at least in the intermediate stage (more than just the two basic stitches) can knit simple patterns without looking at the screen

      That SHOULD have read "can knit simple patterns without looking at ***their knitting***"

      Good grief *sigh* Where's that edit button? :(
  • Re: One thing that really irates me

    Fri, April 11, 2008 - 9:11 PM
    There's some people just I just like having around. If they choose to be there while I watch a movie they are not that interested in, one could take it as a compliment. Yes, I like watching with real cineophiles, but. . .
  • Re: One thing that really irates me

    Sat, April 12, 2008 - 6:19 PM
    Context is everything for me. Generally speaking I'm a theatre snob too. I'm there (or on my couch) to get lost in a story. My date isnt going to get fondled, (till afterwards!) there wont be any discussion during the movie, let alone getting up to pee. The only fidgeting motion will be the bag to mouth popcorn ritual.

    That said, there's nothing better than Bad Movie Night with friends gathered around Return of the Living Dead and you havent truly lived till you've soaked in an action flick with full contact audience participation in Richmond.

    I know who I am and therefore wont watch movies with people suffering from attention deficit dis... oh look! What lovely shoes!
  • Re: One thing that really irates me

    Sun, April 13, 2008 - 8:17 PM
    I don't mind a bit. What really annoys me are people who eat popcorn. I find the smell nauseating, and the noise of crunching is FAR more distracting than silent laundry folding, etc.
    I don't care if they pay attention, so long as they don't annoy me with noise.
    • Re: One thing that really irates me

      Sun, April 13, 2008 - 10:08 PM
      I dont like to miss anything. This is why I dont watch movies ot Lost on dvd or other things with people that dont pay attention. I'm always rewinding when I missed something. They get upset or dont care or understand. I especially love when right when the movie is over they get up and walk away and just start doing something else immediately without saying anything. People are fucking clueless. I'll take movie watching etiquette for 400 Bob. Thank you.
      • Re: One thing that really irates me

        Mon, April 14, 2008 - 9:14 AM
        Perhaps they regard a movie as something to entertain them, rather than an art piece? everyone connects to film differently. As for Movie Etiquette, so long as they don't ask you questions while the movie is still on, they haven't done anything wrong.
        Really, I think eating while watching is far more distracting and rude- but most people don't mind it, so I don't complain.
        I'd be annoyed as hell if someone stopped a movie I was watching and rewound it because they missed something.
  • Re: One thing that really irates me

    Sun, April 13, 2008 - 10:53 PM
    Most of the time, if I'm seeing a movie for the first time, I like to watch it by myself. That way I'm not distracted and I don't have to listen to anyone make comments or ask questions.
    I guess there are some movies I've seen before and want to share with someone - and then I'm annoyed when that person does something else while we're watching - but this is rare.
    • Re: One thing that really irates me

      Mon, April 14, 2008 - 11:52 AM
      I get irritated especially if the movie is something I've already seen and the other person isnt into it or whatever. I'm like "Hello. I've already seen this before. Why the hell am I wasting my time watching it with your ass?"
      • Re: One thing that really irates me

        Tue, April 15, 2008 - 2:24 AM
        I like to watch movies at home the same way I would in a movie theatre, dark (curtains drawn), quiet (doors & windows shut) and no disturbances of any kind. My GF tends to fall asleep during most movies at home so this is good, and if it is a movie which I have been hanging out for I will rent it out on my day off, no GF, phone off, cinema mode lounge room!!!!!!

        I have to be immersed in a movie or it is not worth watching, focus, focus, FOCUS!!!!
        • Re: One thing that really irates me

          Tue, April 15, 2008 - 2:36 AM
          <,I like to watch movies at home the same way I would in a movie theatre, dark (curtains drawn), quiet (doors & windows shut) and no disturbances of any kind. >>

          We even have a name for it.. "going cinema mode" :)
  • Re: One thing that really irates me

    Tue, April 15, 2008 - 9:20 AM
    the quiet activities aren't so bad, but sometimes the SO has to go through the newspaper stack, cutting out sports articles. the rustling noise of the papers makes me want to set it on fire! o.k, maybe not set it on fire...i would have to clean that mess!

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